The Basics

Where you are right now serves you.

Don't like that statement? That's worth looking at. Resistance is a great way to stay right where you are.

Or maybe you just want to take a step and move into a place that's more fun and validating.

How to take a step

• Make a decision

• Allocate some attention, time, and money. Let's call these three your ATM.

We (or anyone else) can't help you unless you have a base level of commitment.

That shows up in your decision to take a step and the ATM you bring to the step.

The amount of ATM you allocate reflects

• The value of the step
• Your havingness – your ability and your capacity to give to yourself

The first one, the value of the step to you, is what controls. Your havingness is malleable and increases with the strength of the decision you make and the degree of work you do on your havingness.

Explore Havingness